Author: jhawk2415
Josh is a swim coach and family farm entrepreneur. He and his wife of 20+ years, Amy, have worked full time together for the better part of their marriage homesteading, coaching, and homeschooling their 2 boys (Amy does 99.9% of the teaching). They have both been coaching since graduating Taylor University in 1997 and specifically coaching swimming since 2003.

Book Resources

Book Resources

            Discipline

(especially the toddler and elementary years….EXCELLENT suggestions)

                        Creative Correction…Lisa Whelchel

General Help

Boundaries with kids…Henry Cloud

Gary EzzoBabywise, Pre-toddler Wise, Toddler Wise, Teen Wise, etc. as well as Growing Kids God’s Way

                        Power of a Praying Parent…Stormie Omartian

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk …Adele Faber

The Way They Learn…Cynthia Tobias

The Five Love Languages…Gary Chapman. (There are multiple variations…”for teens”, “for men”, “for women”, etc)

Fathers and Sons, Stand Fast…Douglas Bond

The 10 Commandments of Dating…Ben Young and Dr. Samuel Adams

Making Brothers and Sisters Best Friends by Sarah, Stephen, and Grace Mally

Grace Based Parenting…Dr. Tim Kimmel

                        Raising Kids for True Greatness…Dr. Tim Kimmel

            Parenting (specifically about boys)…

                        Bringing Up Boys…James Dobson*

                        Boys Should Be Boys…Meg Meeker*        

            Good Devotionals for Early Years…(Great for reading out loud to children.)

                        Read N See DVD Bible by Stephen Elkins

                        100 Bible Heroes, 100 Bible Songs by Stephen Elkins

                        Jesus Storybook Bible

                        Egermeier’s Bible Story Book

                        The Child’s Story Bible by Catherine F. Vos

The Family Prayer Bible by Elmer L. Towns

            Good Devotionals for BOYS during their Elementary Years…

(to read out loud or for them to begin to read on their own)

                        His Mighty Warrior by Sheri Rose Shepherd*

                        Raising a Modern Day Knight by Robert Lewis (We did this as a family.)

The Brick Bible (If you haven’t seen this and your boys are into Legos, this is the Old and New Testament stories portrayed in Lego “comic” strip form.  Our boys have saturated the use of these books…enjoying reading and re-reading and re-reading the stories. As a result, they can keep all the good and bad kings straight in the Old Testament better than I can. And as teenagers, they still refer to the pictures/portrayals from this.)

                      

Parenting MIDDLE SCHOOL/TEENAGE Boys…

30 Things I Need To Tell My Son (Family Christian Stores publication)

                        Teenage Boys!...Bill Beausay

                        That’s My Teenage Son…Rick Johnson. (written for moms!)

                        What a Son Needs From His Mom…Cheri Fuller

                        What a Difference a Mom Makes…Dr Kevin Leman

Good for middle school/high school BOYS  (excellent read aloud or read on their own)

                        Bob Schultz’s books (outstanding!)

                                    Boyhood and Beyond

                                    Created for Work

                                    Practical Happiness

*Note: These authors also have books specifically for raising girls as well.

If you come across “unlinked links”, let me know and I will try to fix the issue. Thank you!

Resources for Raising Boys

Resources for Raising Boys

I love having boys!

I love raising boys!

Yet, as a female, there’s been a learning curve in the journey since I am not a boy!

So, I have sought out books to help me as I journey through raising boys.

I have come across some pretty insightful and helpful things for me. I thought I would share them in hopes that they can be of help or be a springboard in your journey.  

Please share resources you have come across as well.

Book Resources

Other Resources

Thoughts

Differences

Differences

As I looked out the window this morning at the ground dusted with snow, I spotted a daffodil with flowers drooping a bit from the weight of the snow resting on their blooms.  As I kept looking at the outdoor scene, I came back to the daffodils in the snow.

I thought a little deeper about the daffodils and the crocuses that always brave the constantly changing weather of spring.  In thinking about the special features these plants have in order to be able to withstand the varying spring weather, I realized this was a great picture of the differences we experience with people around us. Every person and every personality around us is different; yet each person and personality has purpose in our life.

Now, if crocuses and daffodils waited to bloom in May with a lot of other plants, they wouldn’t stand out as much. They probably wouldn’t mean as much to us. These early spring blooming flowers bring a promise of what’s to come. They are a benchmark or indicator to us that the soil temperature is changing and the conditions are becoming more favorable for re-growth, new growth, a fresh start. 

As I continued to drift through these thoughts, I realized just how much this aspect of nature is a picture of people. If all people were the same, it would be boring. If we all “bloomed” at the same time, our successes wouldn’t be as worth celebrating. If we were all fashioned to blend in by simply doing the same thing at the same time as everyone around us, our uniqueness wouldn’t mean as much. Think about it…what if both parents responded to everything the same? What if all the athletes on a team had the same strength? What if our siblings were just like us? Or our friends…identical in all ways? 

Yet, God knew the value of uniqueness…much more than even we do.  God knew that people and relationships would mean more if they were purposeful and intentional…both in their timing and in their characteristics. And He gives us a reminder of that in the world around us. He even shows us that in the early blooming plants that withstand the brutal changes of spring and still shine with hope and purpose in an otherwise dreary landscape.

What if we looked at the unique purposes of the people that surround us or our circumstances in the same light? What if we realized it might be our time to bloom in someone else’s otherwise dreary life? What if we recognized and valued the people around us that bring hope in otherwise seemingly hopeless or lifeless situations?

I think God knew what He was doing when He created crocuses and daffodils. And, today, I am grateful for His reminder to me to value the people around me for the differences He’s created in each of us.

Ephesians 2:10

For we are God’s masterpiece.

He has created us in Christ Jesus

so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.

Not just any quarter

Not just any quarter

This isn’t just any quarter.

This quarter has a story.

Actually, it has a life-saving story that I’ll share with you.

    Last Fall, I had taken the boys to cross-country practice and set off for a run through town.

It was a beautiful morning…just crisp and cool enough, yet not too hot…the leaves were still changing. So, the colors were everywhere. It was one of those days that makes everything seem perfect. Plus, it was during Fall Break which meant there wasn’t much traffic to contend with as I meandered around town.

     About halfway through my run, I was trekking along a busier road just past a 4-way stop where the sidewalk is only on one side of the road. I was on the side of the road without a sidewalk that also happened to be in front of an always-crowded auto repair shop. I tend to be aware of the traffic around me (because…as a runner…it only takes one near death experience to make you aware of cars around you). So, I didn’t feel like this was a dangerous situation given the light amount of traffic on the road.

      As I ran in front of the lines of tightly packed cars waiting to be worked on, I happened to glance down and see a quarter.  Well, I don’t know about you, but when I see free money, I pick it up. No sooner had I picked up the quarter and continued my gait when out of the corner of my eye (as my head lifted back up from leaning to pick up the quarter) I realized a large vehicle was suddenly right in front of me. The angled position of the vehicle from me didn’t allow eye contact with the driver at the time (which is my usual protocol for proceeding with a vehicle nearby).

       No worries…he was quickly trying to move the car to be worked on, but I had enough time to react and slow down. And–then the driver saw me. We made eye contact as he pretty much slammed on the brakes when he saw me (which almost caused me to run into the vehicle since I was anticipating the vehicle would continue moving forward). I waved him along. He signaled a “Sorry, I didn’t see you wave!” And we both carried on.

       It was only then, as I felt the quarter in my hand, that I realized how that quarter had just saved my life. If that quarter hadn’t been there and I hadn’t stopped to pick it up, I would be dead or seriously injured. How’s that for an adrenaline run!?! 

       As I continued my run, my thumping heart (with the realization of my near-death experience) began to settle back into a more regular rhythm. But my mind flashed with scenarios. And, I became grateful.  Grateful for the quarter. Grateful that I had stopped to pick it up. Grateful that I wasn’t injured. Grateful that the driver seemed sorry he hadn’t seen me (because, trust me, there are drivers that seem to aim at a biker or runner).

       While continuing my run, I wondered how many times I’ve had “quarter moments” in my life. Moments that paused me long enough to slow me down from a dangerous situation. Moments that prevented me from being in a situation or at a location at a certain time that would have been life-changing.  Can you think of a few?

        Since that day, I’ve kept this quarter on the counter by my phone. And every time I see it, I’m reminded that God protected me that day by simply putting the quarter on the ground in the precise place that I would see it…pause…pick it up….and be kept safe as a result.  It’s quite a reminder. 

        I saw this quarter today while I was cleaning things up on the counter and thought maybe you could use this reminder, too. We live in a busy world. We get running late for so many reasons. We feel hurried to be just about everywhere.  

        I believe God protects us often times…if we’re willing…by slowing us down in a situation, stopping us at a red light, or pausing us just long enough to chat with someone or wait in line to check out.  What do we do in those moments?  Complain we got slowed down…? Hurry ahead? Or…recognize that God’s hand of protection might be keeping us from something or providing an opportunity we wouldn’t otherwise have.  It seems silly, but I’ve thought about framing this quarter as a reminder to just be okay with pausing, slowing down, or stopping for a moment. ‘Cause it only takes one life-changing moment for life to change…

Psalm 18:30

God’s way is perfect.

All the LORD’s promises prove true.

He is a shield for all who look to him for protection.

Homeschooling 9th grade…

Homeschooling 9th grade…

Having organized the 4 year high school course plan based on our state’s graduating requirements, we mapped out what classes to take when and had a plan for 9th grade. 

     With English, Writing, and Literature being lumped together in high school as one course, we chose to continue with the English curriculum we have been using through Rod and Staff Publications. The high school course for Rod and Staff is set up in a two-book series for 9/10 grade and incorporates (as it always has) the grammar, the writing, the speaking, and the research skills within each chapter.  So, it is an “all-encompassing” curriculum in that regard for the English portion. Being familiar with this curriculum and how it works, we were able to navigate easily through the first of the two books.

     We chose to use Perspectives of Life in Literature for literature. This curriculum is set up to use a story for the reading (with emphasis on different styles, time periods, etc) followed by comprehension questions, vocabulary, and writing technique questions. Overall, it does a great job of challenging the student to look beyond the words of the writer to the more intentional processes used throughout the reading/writing…as well as the effectiveness (or in-effectiveness) of these approaches/processes.  What really helped was that the incorporation of the writing process requires the student to utilize aspects of the story they read in order to produce a story of their own using given techniques and topics to choose from. This approach allows the student to be challenged to incorporate specific writing skills and learn how to effectively execute this in their writing.  I loved it…and our son (who doesn’t really enjoy writing, of course) wrote some great (multipage!!!) writings as a result.  We also selected some classic literature books to read and utilized quizzes and comprehension checks available online.

      For math…we used Abeka’s Algebra 1 course. It was pretty straight forward, but we have our 2nd son in high school using Khan Academy for Algebra 1. I have found that the video instruction with math has been helpful for each of our boys…even beyond me teaching them the math concepts verbally. I think having another voice and a visual, step by step explanation just fit their needs better. And Khan Academy does a great job in their courses of teaching and tracking the student progress. (Note: Our boys have indicated that in talking with friends at the high school, these courses via Khan Academy seem to be much “deeper” in content than the courses at the high school. So, it is likely that Khan Academy is a more intense or in-depth course than others available.)

    In science, we stuck with the same author from our elementary and JH years, Dr. Jay Wile. We used his Biology course which included lab experiments (mainly dissections) which, for our state, qualifies for the requirement of one year of science with a lab.

   For us, History consisted of re-visiting the history curriculum we did in 5th -8th grade with the Mystery of History. This time the work fell under her “Older Students’ workload (as opposed to her “Younger” or “Middle Students” options).  Since our boys love history, they didn’t mind re-reading the sections and learning new levels of the details.

  The foreign language our older son chose was Spanish. Having traveled for a brief trip to Honduras, he had picked up on some Spanish already. We used Easy Peasy as a guideline for the work and resources and then supplemented where needed with other resources on the internet. However, the greatest asset and resource was the foreign exchange student on our swim team who came from Mexico. She and our son traded “lessons” each day. She would check something our son wrote to see if it would be written in a way that one would actually speak it in Mexico. And then she would ask our son a question about something she was learning in English.  It proved to teach each of them much more than they expected about each language.

  We did health and PE as well. PE is pretty straight forward, but for health I used various health books that I have been reading as a means of helping our boys understand the “why” behind a lot of what I/we do when shopping for food and cooking the food. 

Throughout the year, we still volunteered weekly on Tuesday mornings at our local soup kitchen. Our son’s class fell during the same time frame every other week because of block scheduling. But, we were still able to do it by arranging the load of work on that day.

In regards to “workload”, we had to get creative once we got a feel for it all. With the high school on block scheduling, the initial plan was to block schedule our work as well and try to balance the load between the days. Reality changed that plan a bit. We found we needed to do Spanish and Algebra 1 each day for smaller amounts of time in order to benefit from repetition and the in-take of new information (not overloading on one day with a gap until the next overload). So, since our high school has “blue” days and “white” days and our son’s class at the high school was on “white” days, we made “blue” days the heavier workload day with English/Literature, Biology, Algebra 1, and Spanish…and if time, history. This left the “white” day a little less intense (Algebra 1, Spanish, and History) which balanced out the extra time for traveling to/from school for his class. One surprising aspect that our son stated early in the school year was that he didn’t mind school work taking up more of the day…because it passed the time more quickly leading up to sports practice at school in the afternoon. So, I learned to let him self-teach (and then I checked in on his understanding) and to practice his own time management. This was much different than all the other years of teaching at home. But it had its advantages and disadvantages (like when I would start doing something either with our other son or in the kitchen and suddenly he was ready for Biology help). He–on his own initiative–learned to do the stuff he needed help with at a time I would be more likely to be able to help him easily. And it did help.

Throughout the year, I recorded grades more intentionally and had to submit them to the high school (for athletic eligibility) each quarter. I also compiled his report card using a template that had  places for attendance, the grading scale, and activities in each quarter (which included musical instruments, books read, videos, projects/crafts, community service, and “other”…which is where I recorded sports and employment). This is a helpful way to keep documentation in one place that will come in handy down the road for college applications, job applications, a reference when homeschooling siblings, or a means of sharing details with other people homeschooling in high school. (Things I thought I wouldn’t forget seemed to be forgotten rather easily!) 

Homeschooling 10th grade…

Homeschooling 10th grade…

   A lot of the coursework as a sophomore was similar to what we did during freshman year…including English, Literature, History, Spanish , and Health. We continued through the same English book and Literature book. History was focused on the Medieval time period. Spanish included interpreting spoken dialogue. And Health continued to dig into nutrional choices and the effecs on the body (especially as an athlete).

   Sophomore math was Geometry and we chose to use Khan Academy. After looking at all the ways a geometry course can be taught and all the focuses that can be emphasized, we (again) felt that a video style of teaching on a daily basis would be more helpful. Due to the high school course requirements for the engineering course he would be taking at the high school his sophomore year, our older son ended up taking Geometry in the summer between Freshman and Sophomore year in order to be able to take the engineering class at the high school during his sophomore year.

  Chemistry was the science choice for sophomore year and we used the same curriculum/author as in our other years of homeschooling. Again, the author, Dr. Jay Wile, does an excellent job taking complex topics and simplifying them while using everyday/familiar examples for ensuring complete understanding . Even our son commented on Dr. Wile’s ability to simplify complex ideas in real ways.

   We also chose to study the Constitution throughout the year in addition to the Medeival history covered in our history course.  We used a book written by a homeschooled student called Our Constitution Rocks. It is a great resource for breaking down the constitution for an upper elementary through adult aged individual. The author also gives examples from recent years where a decision was recently made using each specific part of the constitution in a government decision.  We also benefitted from seeing the date/time periods that various parts were incorporated/implemented. I would highly recommend some type of specific study of the Constitution during high school.

     With interest in guitar, our oldest also chose 2nd semester to offset his first semester Health course with a Music Theory class during 2nd semester.  In addition to his continued interest in the violin and the piano, he learned quite a bit on both the acoustic and electric guitar.

   Some reading assignments through the year incorporated current event articles coupled with specified writing assignments in response.  Other reading (in addition to the Literature book readings) included…some re-reading of the American Adventure and Hardy Boy books, a couple books by Stephen Mansfield, and the Screwtape Letters by CS Lewis.

   Somehow he also managed to find time for quite a few other personal interests and crafts that I won’t bore you with (but would gladly share upon request). Needless to say, there was quite the balance between work, study, craft, and athletics.

Homeschooling High School

Homeschooling High School

An overview…

     In our state, a homeschooler can participate in athletics if they take one class at the high school. It is up to the superintendent of each school corporation as to whether to allow participation by a homeschooler.  So, when our eldest was in 7th grade, we inquired about the opportunity to do this (starting with the high school principal and athletic director) since we weren’t aware of any other current homeschoolers doing this at our high school. We were given the “go ahead” by the superintendent in the Fall of our 8th grade year, which gave us some time to think through our daily schedule and plan how to accomplish the workload.   So…our high school homeschooling experience has included being able to take a high school course at our local high school which also enables participation in high school sports.

    For our eldest son, his Freshman year fell into the time frame of COVID which created some challenges with the ebb and flow of the year. But overall, our experience in high school has been pretty smooth. While homeschooling both at home and with a class at the high school, the greatest challenge has been not knowing what time of day the class at the high school will fall. Obviously, this affects the planning process at home (including how to organize the day for productivity). But, we have figured out the best flow for the schedule each year as it comes; and we seem to find a pretty stable rhythm rather quickly each year.

    The interests of our kids are very hands on…so we have taken engineering and construction classes as the high school course. But the opportunities are wide open in our school district, which is nice for tapping into interests at this age and stage of learning. 

So, with all of that said…let me break down our years of high school learning and maybe you’ll find some aspects that are helpful for you and your homeschooling experiences.

9th grade…

10th grade…

11th grade…

12th grade…

Planning the high school years can be a lot like this picture.

You have to be able to view what’s in the distance while in the midst of what’s closest at hand.

Additional Books and Resources

Additional Books and Resources

Books we enjoyed looking through, reading, exploring, and/or re-reading…

LANGUAGE

Brian P. Cleary books (parts of speech/grammar)

Alvin Schwartz books (Busy Buzzing Bumblebees)

MISCELLANEOUS

Too Many Pumpkins (L White)

McBroom (S Fleischmann…tall tales)

Five Little Peppers (M Sidney)

Alfred Hitchcock’s Solve Them Yourself Mysteries

Chocolate by Hershey (B Burford)

Time Zones (D Adler)

Disaster (DK…Richard Bonson)

Marguerite Makes a Book (B Robertson)

ANCIENT HISTORY/BIBLE

Exploration into Africa (I. Ibazebo)

The Anceint World Great African Kingdoms (Sean Sheehan)

In the Days of Noah (G. Clanin)

A Cry From Egypt (Hope Auer)

A Stand at Sinai (Hope Auer)

Timna (Lucille Travis)

For the Temple (G Henty)

The Fugitive King, The Exiled Prince (Handford)

Victory on the Walls, Jubal and the Prophet (Hyman)

The True Story of Noah’s Ark (T Dooley)

Life in the Great Ice Age (Michael and Beverly Oard)

The Atlas of the Bible Lands (Andrea Dve)

The Ancient World of the Bible (Malcolm Day)

The Moses Basket (Jenny Koralek)
Hittite Warrior (JoAnne Williamson)

God King (J Williamson)

Bronze Bow (E Speare)

My Heart Christ’s Home

Tirzah (Lucille Travis…Moses)

The Flames of Rome; Pontius Pilate (Paul Maier)

Twice Freed (P St. John)

WORLD HISTORY

What They Don’t Teach You About History (Tim Wood, Ian Dicks)

Augustus Ceaser (G. Foster)

Roman Ship Model (Candle Discovery Series)

1620 Year of the Pilgrim (G Foster)
The Marquis De LaFayetter (H Carter, Landmark Books)

D’Aulaires’ Book of Greek Myths

Thermopylae (P Steele)
You Choose…Ancient China, Great Wall

Roman Mysteries (C Lawrence)

The Ides of Apirl (Mary Ray)

Usborne Internet Linked…Romans

Beyond the Desert Gate (M Ray)

Indian Chiefs (R Freedman)

Black Fox of Lorne (Vikings…M Dangeli)

Beorn the Proud (Vikings…M Pollard)

Adam of the Road (E. Gray…Middle Ages)

A Door in the Wall (M de Angeli…Middle Ages)

The King’s Shadow (E. Alder…Middle Ages)

A Single Shard (Linda Sue Parks…Korea)

The Striped Ships (E McGraw…Middle Ages after Hastings/1066)

The Trumpeter of Krakow (Kelly)

The Whipping Boy (S Fleischman)

Not Regina (C Kaufman…Anabaptists/Renaissance/Reformation)

Douglas Bond series…Reformation/Scotland/coming to America

The Heart of a Samurai (M Preus…1850’s)

The Bamboo Sword (M Preus…1850’s)

Nory Ryan’s Song (P R Giff…Irish Potato Famine)

The Lost Battallion

Angel on the Square (G Whalen)

Letters from Ritka (Karen Hesse…Russia/Jewish immigration)

US HISTORY

A History of US series

Exploration and Conquest (Besty and Guilio Maestro)

Eric the Red (N. Grant)

I Pledge Allegiance (J. Swanson)

America’s Federal Holidays (John De Gree)

The Declaration of Independence (Stuart Kallen)

Squanto, Friend of the Pilgrims (Clyde Robert Bulla)

Three Young Pilgrims (Cheryl Harness)

Miles Standish (Miller/Schlesinger Jr)

The Adventurous Life of Myles Standish (C. Harness)

A Slave Family (Bobbie Kalman)

Indian Captive (Mary Jennison)

Colonial American Craftsmen (L. E. Fisher)

And Then What Happened Paul Revere (Jean Fritz)

The Fighting Ground (Avi)

The Many Rides of Paul Revere (James Giblin)

Cooking up US History (S. Barchers)

Why Can’t You Make Them Behave King George (J Fritz)

A More Perfect Union…Story of the Constitution (B and G Maestro)

The Split History of the American Revolution (M. Burgan)

The Liberty Tree (L. Penner)

Liberty or Death (B. Maestro)

A First Book in American History (E. Eggleston)

Children’s Encyclopedia of American History (D. C. King)

Thomas Jefferson Biography (J Giblin)

Rush Revere and the Brave Pilgrims (R. Limbaugh)

Robert Fulton (J Henry)

The Erie Canal (P Spier)
The Flag Maker (S Baroletti)

Talking Leaves : The Story of Sequoyah (B Kohn)
A Place Called Freedom (S. R. Sanders…Indiana slavery)

A Pocketful of Goobers E.W. Carver (B Mitchell)

Daniel Boone (K Wilkie)

Daniel Boone (K Brandt)

The Incredible Adventures of Daniel Boone’s Kid Brother-Squire (W. F. Conway)

The Mayflower Compact (Heinemann KNOW IT series) (E.J.Carter)

The Slave Dancer (P Fox)

Which Way to the Wild West (S. Sheinkin)

Landmark Books…including Thomas Jefferson, George Washington, Our Independence and the Constitution

America’s Hidden History (K. Davis)
Let My People Go (Stories told by a Freeman of Color…based in Charleston) (McKissack)

With Wolfe in Canada (Henty)

True to the Old Flag (Henty)
Steve Sheinkin books

Full Steam Ahead (Transcontinental Railroad) (R Blumberg)

Blue Willow (Dust Bowl) (Doris Gates)

Our Constitution Rocks!

Exploration Timeline

53 ½ Things That Changed The World

Civil War Parks…The Story Behind the Scenery

“If You” series (Covered Wagon, Colonial Times, Underground Railroad, etc)

The Trail of Tears (Scholastic Step into Reading)

Eyewitness Books American Revolution

The 4th of July Story (Alice Dalyliesh)

The Jamestown Colony (Let Freedom Ring)

The Very First Americans (Cara Ashrose)

Warfare in the Eighteenth Century (J Black)

WORLD WAR 2

Illustrated Encyclopedia of Major Aircraft of WW2  (Francis K. Mason)
Flighting Aircraft of World Wars One and Two (Susan Joiner)

Aviation Century WW2 (Ron Dick, Dan Patterson)

Great Battles of WW2 (John MacDonald)

Aircraft of WW2 (The Aviation Factfile) (Jim Winchester)

Significant Battles of WW2 (Kelly Cochrane)

Remember WW2 (Dorinda M. Nicholson)

Atlas of WW2 (John Keegan)

A WW2 Timeline (Elizabeth Raum)

WW2 Stats and Facts (Peter Darman)

WW2 Order of Battle (Shelby Stanton)

Jane’s Fighting Aircraft WW2 (Bill Guniston)

The Vital Guide to Fighting Aircraft of WW2 (Karen Leverington)

INDIANA HISTORY

Smiling Hill Farm

The Bears of Blue River

Madeline Takes Command (New France story)

So You Think You Know Indiana (Nelson Price)

Indiana Civil War…Indiana Battle Flags, Indiana in the Civil War Era, A Chronology of Indiana in the Civil War, Civil War Battlefields

The Indiana Way

Hoosiers and the American Story

SCIENCE

Chemically Active Vicki Cobb

Science Experiments You Can Eat

More Science Experiments You Can Eat

Flying Machines (Nick Arnold)

Growing Frogs (Vivian French)

How Science Works (with projects)

The Science and History Project Book  (Oxlade, Halstead, Reid)

First Human Body Encyclopedia

Usborne internet linked…Earth and Space

MAPS…to buy or have access to

Children’s Atlas of the World

Timeline of History

Rose Book of Bible and Christian History Timelines

Atlas of Past Times (John Haywood)

Rand McNally…Atlas of American History, Historical Atlas, Classroom Atlas, World Atlas

Then and Now Bible Maps

The Student Atlas (Tim Dooley)

Bible Atlas and Companion

Geography from A to Z (Knowlton/Barton)

Nystrom Atlas of World History
Illustrated Atlas of World History

Usborne Atlas of World History

Usborne Book of World History Dates

Read Alouds while Homeschooling

Read Alouds while Homeschooling

     Here are the “Read Alouds” that we have read and enjoyed as a family (often times in the car while driving to and from places). Many of these followed our history curriculum while others were just selections from the shelves of the library (particularly Caldecott, Newberry, and other award winning books).

Come On, Seabiscuit (Ralph Moody)

Little Britches/Father and I were Ranchers, Man of the Family, The Home Ranch, The Fields of Home, Mary Emma and Company, Shaking the Nickel Bush, The Dry Divide, Horse of a Different Color (Ralph Moody…autobiographies)

Cricket in Times Square, Tucker’s Countryside, Harry Kitten & Tucker Mouse, Chester Cricket’s Pigeon Ride, Chester Cricket’s New Home, Harry Cat’s Pet Puppy, The Old Meadow (Selden)

The Wonderful Wizard of Oz (Baum)

Hittite Warrior (Joanne Williamson)

God King (Joanne Williamson)

The Bronze Bow (Elizabeth George Speare)

Escape by Sea (LS Lawrence)

Roman Mysteries (Caroline Lawrence)

The Golden Goblet (E McGraw)

The Flames of Rome (P Maier)

Beyond the Desert Gate (M Ray)

King Arthur

The Eagle of the Ninth (Sutcliff)

Twice Freed (St John)

Black Fox of Lorne (M DeAngeli)

Beorn the Proud (M Pollard)

Adam of the Road (Elizabeth Gray)

A Door in the Wall (M Deangeli)

The King’s Shadow (E Alder)

The Hidden Treasure of Glaston (E Jewett)

Pontius Pilate (P Maier)

A Single Shard (Linda Parks)

The Striped Ships (E. McGraw)

Journey to the Center of the Earth (J Verne)

Trumpeter of Krakow (Kelly)

A Cry From Egypt (Hope Auer)

Stand at Sinai (Hope Auer)

Not Regina (Kaufman)

The Whipping Boy (Fleischman)

Duncan’s War, King’s Arrow, Rebel’s Keep (D. Bond)

Timna (L Travis)

The Slave Dancer (P Fox)

For the Temple (GA Henty)

Let my People Go (McKissack)

Guns of Thunder, Guns of the Lion, Guns of Providence     (D Bond)

With Wolfe in Canada (GA Henty)

True to the Old Flag (GA Henty)

Nory Ryan’s Song (Patricia Reilly Giff)

The Heart of a Samurai (Margi Preus)

The Lost Battalion

Blue Willow (Doris Gates)

The Bamboo Sword (Preus)

Angel on the Square (Gloria Whelan)

Letters from Ritka (Karen Hesse)

The Fugitive King (Handford)

Victory on the Walls (Hyman

The Exiled Prince (Handford)

Jubal and The Prophet (Hyman)

Rabbit Hill (Robert Lawson)

     We ended up buying GA Henty’s books in 2020 and have started working our way one book at a time through his stories.

Where’s the trap?

Where’s the trap?

So…we have mice that enter our cellar area from some of the ancient pathways known only to myriads of generations of mice that have tried to dwell in our cellar since the house was built around 1890.

Each year as the weather snaps in Autumn and the little furry creatures seek warmth (and any possible food options we may have provided them accidentally) in our cellar, we have to resort to the Annual Mouse Buffet.  It’s not your normal buffet, though! Our buffet consists of peanut butter wiped intentionally on a mouse trap in various strategic locations around the cellar.

This year we had some persistent…possibly labeled “uncooperative”…customers to the Mouse Buffet.  While the furballs frequented a particular set of mouse traps (yes, I said “traps”…plural), there were many occasions where the mice would successfully remove all the peanut butter without setting off the trap. Folks, it was crazy…especially considering that I had strategically located bits of peanut butter all over the trap so any number of licks could/would undoubtedly trigger the trap. I even resorted to staggering 2 traps next to each other–as well as placing the traps half off the edge of the table area that they seemed to frequent–in an effort to catch them losing their balance. Sometimes, within a couple of hours, the peanut butter was already gone—licked clean…but no mouse was caught!

Well, as the story goes, some nights were successful…others not so much. And of course, the operating hours of the Mouse Buffet extend from mid-October to mid-March. Eventually, among daily checks of the traps, I began to consistently find a mouse trap that had flipped off the table with a mouse in it. (Yea for the “half off the table” idea…). 

brown wooden mouse trap with cheese bait on top
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And then there was the morning where I checked the traps only to find one of the traps licked clean…and one of the traps MISSING.  Seriously???  Had they had enough? Was this a coup?  Honestly, I figured my initial quick search could be followed later by a more thorough search where I would surely find the trap and the mouse (or at least smell it a couple days later). 

Ummm…it’s been a month…and nothing…no evidence of a dead mouse, the missing trap, no smell…Nothing!  This led me to begin to picture the places a mouse could possibly travel dragging a trap attached to its leg. Doesn’t seem like there’d be very many options…but apparently it’s easier (or more possible) than I would think….

So, where’s the trap?

I often make parallels to something I have experienced and this was no exception.  I began to think a little deeper about the analogy of the situation… A trap…

What is it that has me trapped?

What is it that I might be unnecessarily dragging around daily?

What is it that I have frequented for so long that now it’s become a part of me…attached in some way? 

Or…What’s attached to me that I’m trying to get rid of…unsuccessfully?

These are some interesting questions to ponder for a few moments. Because without realizing it, we are all trapped by something. We have all frequented something that has become a greater part of us…either for the better or for the worse.  Work can trap us, exercise can trap us, being busy can trap us, money can trap us, eating can trap us, gaining knowledge or experience can trap us, anxiety or stress can trap us, fear can trap us.

The better question, I guess, becomes…is the trap a good fit? When I picture a mouse trying to get through a hole in our cellar with a large mouse trap attached to a leg or a tail, I realize just how crazy I probably look at times trying to make something fit that just isn’t meant to fit. Forcing square shapes into circular holes has never worked easily or well.

selective focus photography of brown mouse
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So why does it seem to take us so long to realize we’re dragging something around that just isn’t working?  Why can’t we see it?  Why can’t we feel it?  Why don’t we change it even when we begin to notice it?

Can it be that we could actually learn something from a mouse? Could it be that some mice have mastered the idea of balance better than we have?  I mean…clearly some of the mice in our cellar know how to eat at the Mouse Trap Buffet but not “overindulge” to the point of death. They know how to eat up the good stuff without becoming stuck in a trap.  They seem to repeatedly be able to teeter perfectly between “just enough” and “I can come back for more”. How is it that a mouse could manage this balance better than I can as a human…who has a much greater thinking capacity than a mouse?

Maybe it’s because it is just so much more simple than what I make it. Maybe I strive to be the best, to receive the credit, to have it all, to be well-liked…only to be trapped into trying to be something I’m not. If I would just stop contentedly with what comes naturally rather than trying to “overindulge” my fantastical wishes, could I be satisfied and be at peace…and walk away from the trap without losing my life? 

I think these mice might be on to something.

Hebrews 12:1

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith,

let us strip off every weight that slows us down,

especially the sin that so easily trips us up.

And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us.

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